I'm trying a completely different approach to dating. I want to make it known to guys that I do not sleep with guys unless we're in a relationship. Of course, I'm not gonna just blurt it out or say it in a batsh*t crazy way, "I won't sleep with you until you make me your girlfriend"
When is the right time to mention something like this and how can I phrase it so he doesn't take it all kinds of bad ways? I also have a history of guys being pissed off at me after I reveal to them that I'm dating other guys. It doesn't make sense to me because we werent in a relationship. But since it happened to more than one guy (both were mad at me and didn't talk to me for a few days) I figure it is something wrong about it. But aren't you free to date other guys if your not in an exclusive relationship? what do you think was wrong about me saying I'm dating other guys? Oh and I didn't sleep with the guys (that were mad) just making out sessions and touching each other.
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I think I'm just honest and upfront.I've flat out told guys that I don't have sex with guys who aren't my boyfriend. I don't feel that is pushy because 1.those are my boundaries and 2.they have a choice to walk away. When I discuss dating other people I let them know I do see other ppl.they can feel however they want, but if I'm not your girlfriend then that is my right, just like they can date other girls.yeah jealousy will happen but it's something that's inevitable2