Ok lemme try to make this text exchange brief, then I want to know what you think.
So I asked her to come with me to this mall with a movie theater and arcade to "have a good time with me".
Her- "who are you going with? and yea I'm down :-)" that scared me for a min.
Me- "just us, thought it'd be a fun place to chill with you this weekend"
Her- "yea sounds cool :-) we can also do that big laser tag you mentioned lol" I mentioned it the first time we hung out at a place with a mini-laser tag room.
Me- "yea thatd actually probably be really fun, I'm down for that. Is 8 good for you? I want to eat actual food this time.. :P" the last two times we ate dinner after our activities when most places are closed.
Her- "yea 8 is good :-) and alright we will eat on one of your wild journeys lol" she said that because we tried a new place last time and I kinda got lost and settled for ihop. Not this time.. lol.
So in your opinion, is this a friendly outing to her, or is it a date in her eyes? she's also very flirty, teases me a lot, and is always grabbing my arm and thigh and allows me to do the same, this is among other signs. Thanks!
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UGh. I hate how all of you guys can't ask us out directly.
Unless you're asking me out for dinner or coffee I assume it is NOT a date.
Well, that was before asking because I kept finding myself in awkward situations. I was supposed to assume help with physics homework was a date once... Same with going to a protest.
A few weeks ago my friend asked me to go to a movie with him. Last year I told him I was not interested in dating him and could only offer a friendship. He asked me out to a movie as friends. I reminded him I can't offer him more and haven't heard from him since.
Make your intentions known to avoid disappointment!0