I went on a second date with a guy last night, about a week after the first date that went really well (one that we kissed at the end of). Last night we went to a movie and met for drinks about a hour before the movie. We chatted for a little bit before the movie, but we obviously didn't really talk during the movie. Our arms were touching the entire movie, but no other physical contact.
After the movie, he said he is going to head home because he is really tired (he was up at 3:00 am for work). I asked if he wanted to grab dinner early next week and he said he would if he's not traveling for work, but just doesn't know yet. He told me he'd talk to me later, then he gave me a small peck on the lips and left.
Is that normal for a 2nd date? I feel like maybe he's loosing interest in me because he didn't want to hang out after. Is really just tired, or is he blowing me off?
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I'm left with this: he really put out for you, making the effort to go out with you eventhough he was really tired. I would wait a few days and just send him a nice message thanking him for seeing you under those circumstances.
I had a woman blow off her mom's party because of me. Now, while this was not the greatest idea perhaps, it does show commitment and that is pretty much all you have to go on: the things people DO for you. Never mind their words. How much are they willing to rearrange their busy lives to see you? And I think he did.