Alright well this has been going on for quite some time. See I have this guy friend who means a lot to me and I really care about him and earlier this year he told me he had feelings for me but I didn't really feel the same way and I also knew he is like secretly in love with my best friend but knows that nothing will happen between them cause she doesn't like him like that. so after I told him that I didn't really have feelings for him we sort of stopped hanging out for a while cause it was just plain awkward. just this week we started hanging out again and I am finding that I may have feelings for him... the only thing is he is talking to some other girl who is my friend I guess but definitely not one of my best friends. ugh why can't I seem to like a guy unless he is completely off limits to me? what do I do about my little situation.. I don't want to ruin things for him and this girl he is talking to because I care about him a lot and want him to be happy. should I wait it out and see what happens or just forget about it cause I missed my chance?
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Tell him how you feel, honesty is always the best approach in these situations. If he had the courage to tell you to your face you should return the favor. His feelings for you will not have disappeared completely, they are still manifesting deep down. If you do not tell him soon than you will have lost your chance. If a relationship does develop it will be a great one, you guys will have already passed a big mile stone and there will not secrets between you two because of the honesty RIGHT OFF THE BAT! Anyways good luck!0