You're on a date at a restaurant and the bill arrives at the table. Your date decides by herself to take the bill and pay for dinner herself. She says she WANTS to pay and then she takes out her purse, what do you do?
Would you tell the girl to put her money away and pay for dinner yourself? Or would you let her pay if she really wanted to?
Girls, would you tell the guy that you cannot be swayed in your decision and go ahead and pay? Or would you put your money away if the guy was uncomfortable with you paying?
Or would you decide to go dutch?
- Guys: I would let her pay / Girls: I would go ahead and pay33% (3)46% (6)41% (9)Vote
- Guys: I would not let her pay / Girls: I would let him pay if he insisted or was uncomfortable22% (2)38% (5)32% (7)Vote
- Guys and Girls: I would go dutch45% (4)8% (1)23% (5)Vote
- Other (please explain)0% (0)8% (1)4% (1)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I'd let her pay for it. It would be a positive move by her. Generosity from women gains respect and earns more generosity from me in the future. The less generous she is, the longer she'll be tested on her motives. It's a positive step in the right direction...1