Guys or girls, how many dates before becoming exclusive or a couple?
Is it OK for a girl to ask to be exclusive?
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The 'let's get a drink' or whatever kind of dates don't count in the count, but usually on a 1st real date if I really like her I'll quasi-joke 'you seeing anyone else this weekend' or something like that. Sorry, but I like to know that a girl I like isn't playing the field, and reciprocates some affection, etc. I don't ask that if we're not into each other and clicking, of course. I also don't say "are we exclusive", I'll ask about her but throw out there that "I like you, I think you're [insert nice adjective], and I want to see you again -or- and I'm not seeing anyone else" and go from there.
If the guy hasn't asked but you like him, yes, it's okay to ask. But you can try to be subtle about it somehow, maybe as I mentioned... less awkward than "are we exclusive".1