so me and my ex started seeing each other. it was good for a couple of weeks and then after that he became moody. when I care he doesn't care. when I act normally like a friend he gets upset and tells me I don't care. that he is saying better we see things first if we can really be back together. we broke up for 4yrs already. but I was shocked when he started contacting me again. and saying that he still loves me and wanna make things work out. but I don't seem to understand him because of these things. he is so moody. example when he texts or calls me I reply, I answer then in the middle of our conversation in text/chat he then disappears and won't reply.. but when I do that he gets pissed with me. its so unfair. I wanna understand him I tried talking to him but he is so sensitive and always tells me do what you want don't ask me. I don't smother him. there are times I'm shy to contact him also because he might be busy so there are some days I do send him a message asking how he is. then he will reply something sarcastic. its like he is a girl having period ya know. he will say something like "oh wow finally you texted.amazing" and ill be shocked. is it normal? I'm really having headache. because I always try to figure things out. but he confuses me a lot! HELP!
he is my 1st bf.and I never had a boyfriend again because I never liked the guys who have courted me even if they are goodlooking or whatever. I just really like this guy.
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Many girls somehow believe that if they put up with a guy's bad behavior long enough, that he will eventually see how much she loves him, and will love and respect her equally in return. Unfortunately, this is a totally misguided notion.
Most guys want a fun, self-confident girl, who respects herself, and who doesn't need him to have a good time. Once a guy knows you can't live without him, and will put up with any selfish or bad behavior he dishes out, your chances of keeping him challenged and interested in you goes right out the window.
Not only should you respect other people, but you should demand the same degree of respect for yourself. You should never put up with any kind disrespect from anyone, especially a person you are in a relationship with. You will have a much better chance of keeping a guy interested in you if you stand up yourself, than if you allow him to walk all over you.
Just remember that there are 4 billion guys on the planet. If the guy you are with starts displaying negative, or disrespective behavior towards you, be willing to walk away. If you do, it's very possible he will chase after you with new found respect. A respect he will never have for you if you can't respect yourself enough to leave.
hope this helped :)
good luck bud..!