Meaning, the girls that tend to leave them for 'jerks' were too good for the nice guy or below his standards.
I know a bunch of girls that would love to date a well-balance, mentally stable, and fun nice guy (notice that I didn't just say nice guys). I know that there are a bunch of other girls that would love to have that kind of guy around.
That's I wonder if nice guys try to chase girls that wouldn't be interested in them and never try to find that would be.
- No.Vote A
- No, the guy just isn't well-balance, mentally stable, or funVote B
- Yes, the girl is too good for himVote C
- Yes, the girl is terrible for himVote D
- OtherVote E
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Do nice guys that finish last try to date girls out of their league?
In my opinion it's "Yes, the girl is too good for him" as I find most guys try to date out of their league yet they may have successful because of their looks, wealth, status, personality, etc unlike nice guys who often have nothing to little to offer than being nice. Being nice to someone a person wants something from isn't as super snowflake special as it seems all nice guys seem to think it is.
" I wonder if nice guys try to chase girls that wouldn't be interested in them and never try to find that would be."
In my experiences that's almost always the case the nice guy is interested in a gal that isn't interested in him and he thinks it's because of his niceness when it is likely because of his looks, wealth, status, or personality.
I've actually matched nice guys up with comparable gals that liked them aka fat ugly guys with fat ugly gals or average guys with average gals and in all cases the nice guys whined the gals were not hot enough and that there was no point to being a nice guy because they have to settle in looks.2