I want to tell him... then I poop myself ...
ok so I don't actually sh*t myself but you get the picture.
when do yall think is the right time to tell someone you love them, and is there a logical dating minimum? it doesn't have to be time wise but number of dates or after a certain point (ex: before or after meeting families)
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Never say I love you first. The guy is supposed to. Not that it's a rule but in most relationships it just seems to go downhill from there, because a lot of times the guy takes advantage of the information and starts using you, especially if the love is one sided. Plus you don't want to think that he is just saying "I love you too" because he feels he is obligated to. It's your call but I've personally never seen it end well. Especially because love means different things to different people, like some people that date for 2 weeks say I love you, whereas people that have been together for a few months or even a year may not say it yet. What does love mean to you? Is it the I'll sacrifice my life for you kind of love, or the I love donuts and puppies kind of love; because they are very different.0