I will make this short.
Him and I lived in a hotel for a week. I felt like I was in heaven. We were holding each other the whole time. We would fall asleep holding each other and wake up in each others arms. We were looking in each others eyes for long time. We were talking how good it felt to be together. We were having sex as much as we wanted to. We were making plans to move in together. He was broke and homeless, and I took care of him the whole time. I was bying him everything he wanted and was paying for all his needs.
That day I was at work while he was in the hotel doing nothing. He came to visit me during my break and we had dinner, which of course I paid for. We were talking about going to look at places for rent the next day. Everything was good.
Four hours later I was on my way to the hotel from work. I texted him that I am on my way. He texted that he is at his friends house and will be coming soon. I said "ok".
An hour later I received text message from him "Suck it bitch". I immediately felt cold sweats running down my back and that I could not breathe. I called him in panic, and his ex-girlfriend answered his phone. I asked to talk to him, and she said "no, you are not going to talk to him". She was mocking me, putting me down and saying that they are having great sex. Then he took the phone and said "I am here with my beautiful wife. It's over". Earlier that day I bought him a new cell phone. He said "guess what I am going to do to the new phone that you bought me today", and then he got disconnected. I guess he broke the phone. Later I discovered that he wiped out my bank account using my credit card.
I've never been in such pain in my whole life. I am completely lost and grieving. I don't know what to do. Can anyone explain to me what the hell happened and what I can do now.
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I'm sorry that this has hurt you so much, far more emotionally than financially. I'm afraid he was using you the whole time. He could read you well enough to pretend to be your dream guy just so he could steal from you. Being romantic and caring, you put aside any doubts about his situation and background. He is nothing more than a thief. What you should do is press charges for theft. Such a man deserves a prison sentence.6
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