I have never had much luck or experience with girls growing up. I grew up the firstborn in the family and my family always frequented church when I was young, and it was a very strict church community. However I still went to a public school and this proved to all be a disaster for me growing up. I never really fit in, I had friends, but we never got close enough where we'd do things outside of school. It was like kids knew I wasn't like most kids growing up around me and I was never invited to parties and I looked down on kids that smoked weed and cigarettes, did drugs and drank underage, even though I was never really vocal about it, I still did.
The older I get, the more I realize how many kids do that stuff, including girls and how girls are always going out with guys like that, guys that really lack a reformed sense of self.
Recently, I signed up for an online dating site just to check it out and all of the hot girls on there aren't even looking for anything serious, they just want to date and fool around, but they're not looking for a guy like me.
It's so very disheartening. Why do you have to dumb yourself down these days to even get attention or dates from good looking girls? All I have ever tried to do is put on my best face and attitude for everyone and be a positive person. I can tell you, it doesn't work.
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I agree. You really have to abandon your brain to get with a lot of these chicks...1