I'm friends with an amazing guy who is very shy and has a hard time expressing himself to women.. I can't say I would mind if we were more than friends. He is one of the rare good ones. He helped me out with an amazing favor doing something most people would not just jump to do. So I am questioning his interest level.. anyway so I texted him a thank you and said if it weren't so late I'd ask you over to give you a kiss... up to this we had been back/forth texting but to this no reply. Next day I sent text with update on what he helped me with - he replied - good sign he is still talking to me. I was worried my forwardness would scare him off.. so I texted and said I know it was late but you went silent.. hoping it would give him opportunity to respond to my putting it out there. He replied with I fell asleep, it was late, I had to be to work really early... I then sent oh good I thought I had upset you..to which he did not respond. Now I know he was still working so I get that he may not have been able/willing to have that convo then but.. two questions 1. How would you take that response? He neither confirmed or denied the request still leaving me to wonder.. and 2. Now it's up to him to take initiative to respond.. I don't want to pester but same time He is so not good at initiating convo (very shy). What would you do... ?
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Well he buried the kiss opportunity for now, the reasons could have guesses but the answer why is of no matter for now. You can build on this opportunity slowly over time until he either can't resist or gives up the answer ... that possibly could be hurtled.
Until then, you can still work on the payback thanks in other ways just as intimate. Such a hard worker, so sleepy needs a relaxing night with all his cares/needs attended by you alone. Think about it. No need to be so direct with this guy.0