Been out on 3 dates with this new guy I have been seeing. Ended up sleeping with him on the 3rd date. Oops!
Things still seem to be going well. He sent me a text the day after and we have been sending texts back and forth to each other every day. All good.
I go on the website we both met each other on out of curiosity. Only to find that his account has been active in the last 24 hours.
Felt like a punch in the gut. Especially after he keeps going in about how he likes me and is still showing me interest regardless...
I really don't want to be messed around. I pretty much told him this before we slept together! Just pretty confused and not sure what to make of it.
Def waiting longer to sleep with someone next time. A bit rusty getting myself out there after a long break without dating. Just don't know what to think now.
No way will I continue sleeping with someone if they are dating other people.
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You're jumping the gun.
Three dates doesn't constitute a reason to turn away all other pursuits. Three dates isn't enough for anything. It's a blimp on the radar as far as dating goes.
And as for the sex, you decided to sleep with him before you became serious and before you even felt you could have a discussion about exclusivity. Thus you made the choice to have casual sex.
I have no empathy for your situation. You wouldn't be where you are if you stuck to your principles and refrained from indulging in your impulses.
You've overcomplicated the relationship without anything solid to hold onto...0
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