At first I thought nothing of it, but it keeps happening so I wonder why she is doing it.
A couple of days ago I was talking (to a friend) and I was joking and saying how it would be nice if I was on a date and the girl at least offered to pick up the check. As soon as I said "being on a date" she had to interrupt and say "yeah, like that is ever going to happen", I guess implying that I can't get dates or something.
The yesterday, I was joking (with another friend) and saying how it seems that men with heart problems seem to have been married to the same woman for a long time and that's why they developed that condition. Then she jumped in (again) and said how I didn't have to worry because I would never find a woman who will want to marry me and other jabs like that.
She makes fun of me for things I do or say, but I think its kinda funny that she is so quick to jump and say how I can't get a date or will never get married and usually when I bring up me being on a date or liking a certain kind of woman. Why is she doing this? Is she jealous or something? I know she finds me unfunny and annoying, but I tell her that she is the only person that seems to think that way and she tells me other girls are just being nice and not telling me the truth. What is her deal?
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Does she tease other people or are you the only person that she's like this to?
She could just be a total [female dog] but then if she initiates conversation with you that doesn't really make much sense.
I mean, I used to be very mean to guys I really liked but I was ... 12 lol.
Everyone is different so I guess she could be jealous or interested.
Some people don't know how to express themselves in a normal fashion and it's usually out of fear.
At some point you're going to have to be honest because she's going to continue and you're still going to stay confused and annoyed.
The only way to really find out is to ask her why she's such a [donkey]?
Half-smiles while asking that really lightens the question up.
I would spark the situation by talking about a girl while you two are alone. If she's as predictable as I think, she's going to say something rude and then you proceed with asking her that serious but not too serious question.
If she says it's a joke. Say something like "Really? Because when you say something so much it doesn't feel like a joke anymore"
I just feel like it will sort of catch her off guard and open the door for a honest conversation