Or do you even wait?
So I just met this guy online ( ahhh scary). He lives in the same town as me, but he's kinda new. Let's say he is the person he says to be, I don't doubt that he is. He wants me to come over and hang out. I don't want to. Not really because I met him online, but mainly because I don't know him. Some people might think I'm kinda square or lame because of that. However, I just don't like hanging out with people I just met. Maybe an estimate of 5 days or something. I like to wait a while, when I feel like I've known them for a bit. It doesn't matter if they are a girl or guy, dating wise, friendship wise, etc.
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I've met people online as well and then met them offline. I usually meet them when I feel comfortable enough talking to them, and if I feel we have a connection.
Also NEVER agree to come over to his place! He seems to only want to get into your pants, especially if he won't take no for an answer. Meet at a public place, and inform at least one of your friends where you'll be before the meeting.1