I'm not ugly...I'm actually kind of pretty. I look about 145-150 lbs and I'm around 5 feet 6 inches tall. I'm a fun person to talk to, nice, funny and loyal. I don't know what the hell the problem is I can never get any guy attracted to me? This doesn't count now the random creeps at clubs that grind up in your space. Like in normal life which includes school, work, people you meet in social settings. I'm 22 and almost 23 and have never kissed! Just graduated college and even less men to choose from now :( lol
I've tried online dating and plenty of fish and stuff. However, guys don't really respond properly. Like I'll send them a pic and they'll say "oh your hot;) lol." "your very pretty you should put your pic up" and then they'll never respond back once I respond like wtf.
Also, the guys that do end up talking to me do just that. I'll have to ask for their bbm/cell number like they don't initiate anything first. Meanwhile I have another friend who is a late bloomer. She is beginning her 3rd relationship from online. One from fb, then 2nd from pof. and Like a month after she broke up with the last one she went on pof again. I told her about pof :@ lol and then she talks on the phone with this guy 3 hrs first night, then hr each night and their texting back and forth and after a week they meet up and decide they want to be in a relationship just like that.
I don't understand what the f*** is wrong with me... I try and try so damn hard to make myself more approachable, prettier, even approach and even pray that I'll get my first kiss. The last part is just sad I know lol
However, its just not happening and I'm sick of trying. And then I go through a period of not trying and then again I come back and "try" some more.
Are their other people, especially girls that can sympathize with me or give me advice?
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Guys online usually don't know how to respond. actually most of us guys do not know how to respond to a woman.
Sometimes you have to give us guys a break and accept the, "Oh your pretty"
And you can try dressing in clothes that are attractive as well.
It isn't a shallow thing to try to look good for a man
there is a different between shallowness and dressing for success.
Jobs look for it every day.
If a job asks you to cut your hair and dress nice and you dress nice for an interview, then there is a better chance to get that job.
Also being positive during an interview and practicing confidence.
start exercising everyday and take care of yourself.
By doing that, that can really boost your confidence a lot.
Then try socializing first with guys and practice flirting.
Flirting isn't bad if it is done right.
Be yourself but improve yourself.
setting goals to be a better person is you making a decision to be a better part of you.
When you have confidence, you will attract positively like a magnet.