Ok so long story story I met this guy on one of those free dating sites. p.s. I barely have any history in dating and not even kissed ever.
Anyways this guy is ambitious, athletic, OK cute. He actually knows how to have a proper conversation and I didn't get creepy msgs like what's your body type and can I have a body picture. However, he moved he from a different town to do research and study, he seems busy with that but times he says he's out with friends too. I finally got him to exchange numbers with me because he was hesistant of who is online and thinking it might be a creepy dude. Anyways, after a week of talking though not constantly because he isn't on the website as much, he then asked for my picture. I sent it, he gives his number and we texted... but he's not texting back and forth properly. ie) I answered his question in my text like 7 hrs ago and he hasn't replied.
1) Are there any steps I can take to make him respond more or he's just not that into me and I should just let it be?
2) Any specific things I should say so he would actually ask me out I don't want to initiate that too :( it'll make me seem super desperate.
3) Should I ask him what he's looking for?
He's legit someone I would date and its hard to find people like that.
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Based on the few words you've written, I hate to say it but I think you're being played. Especially since you are so inexperienced.
There are lots of guys around - if he won't come clean and be more open, why would you want to be with him anyway?
And if he does grow a pair and start communicating ... I honestly wish the best of luck to you both0