I'm not needy but my situation is we in a LDR. I feel when he only texts makes me feel like I do not have boyfriend at all
especially when he is stressed out and busy. Why men can't just be alone if they aren't really bout sharing stories to your gfs? Will keeping it quite and shutting down yourself called relationship?
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I don't think he's busy I think he doesn't call because he probably doing something he doesn't want you to find out. The fact that you are his girlfriend doesn't mean he is obligated to call you. You are not his wife. If he feels that way then he's not serious about opening up this relationship to you, so why do you want to be with someone who is technically invisible? A relationship is suppose to be balanced if one side is pulling more and the other isn't giving anything, then there's no way it can work. It's a give and take not a give/give or take/take relationship.
I would advise talking to him again about how this makes you feel and that you want to feel like you have a boyfriend there. If he makes excuses about being busy and not having the time then it's not serious. I've had people who worked over 50hours a week and somehow manages to call or come over and do nice things. It's all about actions and effort with men. Words don't mean sh*t, "actions speak louder than words" and that is true when they love you.0