within 2 dates of a girl I am seeing she has said a few times
'if this becomes serious'
she also considers us dating and not just hanging out.
we have not kissed or held hands yet but she always touching me and sitting close to me.
how should I see this as?
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Yes, it does sound like she is interested. I agree with others who have posted, she is trying to show you that she wants you to hold her hand or kiss her. She is telling you, "it is OK to touch me." However, after dates, she seems to be jumping the gun. I would make sure she has the right motives first. Ultimately, the guy is in control of the hand holding and first kiss. I never make a move until he does first. (at least that is how I feel) If you are ready to begin a relationship then go ahead, however, if it makes you uncomfortable, you can wait a few more dates before making any moves. Just don't string her along for a long time. Either make a move, or tell her you aren't interested. She will respect you more if you do.0