my boyfriends is use to dating girls who are older then him, I'm a year younger. he said he's use to more mature relationships. how can I make our relationship be more mature?
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lol... to me his statement is like he was saying he dates older (mature) women means that they would more likely give him sex more easily (more experienced in that area) than someone younger might.
if he's dating you now and making those type statements to you about ex GF's he's hinting
that if you want to be with him you've got to be more mature(sexual with him) than you are now.
at 66 years of age I try to pull no punches here but give sound advice that is helpful for a good relationship.
being mature isn't about being more sexual its about knowing who you are and being responsible for any decisions you make along the way in your life. a relationship can't be more mature only the people in the relationship can be mature.
here's a good test if or what he believes a more mature relationship might be. ask him whaqt made these other girls more mature that made him like them.(also if they were so mature why isn't he still with them if it comes back about being sexual with him .>)
i'm not trying to diss your boyfriend but trying to keep you from getting hurt by someone that may be not good for you in the long run.
here is a website that answers the question as to what maturity is though of being...some are good others to be taken with a grain of salt.
hope some of this helps in your question here.0