Don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend, it's just this one thing that he does that makes me feel terrible and makes me kind of dislike him.
We used to text a lot until he got an iPad, which is when we started using Facebook and iMessage to communicate instead of texting. When I send him a message, he usually doesn't read it for hours, sometimes even a day or two. This used to make me really upset and I would end up crying because when he wasn't reading my messages, it seemed that everyone else was taking a lot longer to reply than usual, which made me think that everyone that was friends with me was just faking it and that no one really wanted to talk to me. I finally got over that and accepted the facts that he isn't usually with his iPad like I am and that he's a busy person.
So I got over that, but there's the times when he just doesn't respond to my messages at all (even after he's read them) until I send him a message like "a response would be nice" or something along those lines." I know that he most likely gets distracted and forgets to message me back, but it really hurts me and then I get really angry at him because I think he's ignoring me. I know he loves me and I know he'd never intentionally try to hurt me like this, but I just feel terrible until I see him next and he hugs me and makes me feel better.
So, first question, am I allowed to get angry at him for this?
Second, should I actually bring up how much it hurts me when he does these things? (I've never brought up when I've felt angry/sad/upset with him)
Third, if I say something to him, can it be through text or should I wait until I see him face-to-face?
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to all of these things...
what are you whining about?
hes not getting back to you and your constant badgering for attention. maybe he has other things in his life to do. eat...sleep...do some work...talk to people that arnt online...
how is this even a big problem worth considering. jesus just have some f***ing patience0