We're both interested in each other and been flirting but our texting carried on again around 1am, she seemed off with me but I didn't take too much notice.
She then said "I'm drunk and have argued with my ex... Please don't wind me up tonight"
I'm not sure what to make of it.. was she out drinking with her ex? Or phoned/messaged him? She usually goes out drinking with a group of her girl mates.
I carried on the conversation saying I'll make her smile with a few jokes, but I got mixed messages such as "Whose there xx" and then when I ended the conversation, she just said "bye".
I understand she was drunk, but when I send a text later that day, I didn't get a reply and it's been two days.
I don't understand the ex thing really, they've replied to each other a few months back on twitter and it seemed friendly, as if they were just friends.
They broke up over 3 years ago also.
Should I initiate a second text that's playful and funny? Then if no reply, move on?
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Day two is it? No matter. The answer is no. You should not send a playful / funny text. It's time to man up and tell her how you really feel or just keep quiet. If you were asking how to cheer your buddy up, I'd agree, but your agenda is not so innocent so you may as well shed the act in real life as well.
What I recommend you do is just ask generic questions and have a XGE, which is a conversation surrounding basic concepts such as how they are doing and how they feel. You want to build up into an actual state of relationship material not be the clown friend who suddenly busts out with some fool-ass confession.
I'm not being facetitious. I'm not attacking you as a person. I'm telling you the Truth.
The alternative of course is you open with some silly message that shows zero concern that she isn't interested in, doesn't respond to, miss out on having a serious chance, and moveo and with you life. Neither hurts you. One just is a fasttrack to nowhere if you're going to lose the gamble.1
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