I am currently dating this cool guy, we've been a little off and on for the past 6 months.
Anyway, this past weekend, I told him that I was coming over. So I went over there and his house was FILTHY! I started to have second thoughts... His daughter's room was so unsanitary. How can someone live like that? He smokes a LOT of weed and the bathroom reeked. I also saw an old box of MIDOL openly displayed in the bathroom's medicine cabinet.
I was a little disappointed, and if he and I plan to get serious in the future, I don't want to be tired all of the time from cleaning up behind him, his friends, and daughter.
Should I continue to date him?
Note: He always text, and never calls.
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Lol, I like your note about he never calling =D
I'm guessing the Midol is for his daughter? And are both of them on weed? Not sure about you, but that alone would be a deal breaker for me.
You don't sound very charmed either. Not only do they live like this (which shows their values and personalities), didn't even bother to clean up a bit upon knowing you would stop by. Like you're guessing, that would be your job, and they would probably complain about it too.
Unless you're really, really, really into him and you get along perfectly in every other regard, I would consider finding myself a new boyfriend.3