Okay, so I sweat...a lot. It doesn't matter where I am, or what I'm doing, as long as it's above 76 and there's no wind, then I'll be sweating. If I'm in a house that is around 77-78, then I will definitely sweat.
My last girlfriend broke up with me because she "met someone else". I suppose by this she means that she met someone who doesn't sweat like I do. In the summer, if I'm not in a room with the AC on strong, then I will sweat, especially if I'm cuddling with a girl.
I loved this girl, and I tried my HARDEST to make her happy. There wasn't a moment that passed where I felt I wasn't doing something to make her happy. I bought her flowers every month, I listened to every word she said, I wiped the tears from her face, and I held her hand at every opportunity. I was even practically best friends with her father and brother. I still am! Her family all loved me!
I met her in the fall, and started to date her in the winter, so she never really got to see how much I sweat. This late spring/early summer however, she started to realize that I do sweat. I remember her one time leaning away while we were spooning, almost seemingly in disgust because I was sweating a tiny amount. And yes, I do mean a tiny amount, as in the sweat wasn't visible, just a little moist feeling.
After/during sex I sweat, sometimes even to the point of sweat dripping from my face. She seemed fine with that, which is why I'm so confused as to why she wouldn't like me as much because I sweat a little during cuddling. I treat her right, or so I thought, and everyone loved me. Except her, and my sweating problem.
My question to you, is:
Would you date someone who sweats when cuddling?
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Yes I would and I would appreciate the fact that he liked to cuddle as well. It is completely normal for some men to have higher perspiration ratios and believe it or not, women can sometimes actually differentiate between different kinds of sweat. Perspiration/sweating can be a turnon or turnoff to some women, but as long as you have good hygiene and shower without letting it linger, she shouldn't have a problem with it. Thought you might find this article interesting below because it relays the fact that high states of arousal can give off sexual pheromones. I wouldn't worry to much about it, especially if you treat her right and the sexual attraction is on an even keel. :)