So I went out with this woman that I really really liked, more than any other girlfriend or date that I have ever been with. She is basically exactly what I had pictured I wanted in a woman so far as I can tell. But she left me after the third date and here is what she said:
I know that xxxxx is a farther drive than what you might be used to, and I'd never want to waste anyone's time or energy because I know it's precious! So, as much as I hate to say it, because I do think you are a cool person, I don't think I feel the connection I'm looking for. I have enjoyed getting to know you and hate that I don't feel in my heart it will work out. I really do wish you the best, and wish you lots of luck with your job and cabin-building! I'm glad I got to meet you!
All of our dates went very well, we held hands, kissed, etc and I didn't sense any boredom etc., it was all fun. The only potential issue I can see is that our hug right before parting on the third date was somewhat brief but reasonable. Otherwise, its possible she may have wanted more physically affection after, but I don't know.
So my question ladies is, can you interpret what she meant by "So, as much as I hate to say it, because I do think you are a cool person, I don't think I feel the connection I'm looking for. I have enjoyed getting to know you and hate that I don't feel in my heart it will work out."
Also, is it even possible to get back with a lady when you think you might really be compatible after something like above has happened ?
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I think she seems like a nice lady as she has been on a couple of dates with you and given it a decent chance for attraction to develop. Unfortunately, if she's not feeling the chemistry then there's not a lot you can do. Maybe ask if you can remain friends (but don't contact her constantly!) as occasionally feelings can change but to be honest, I would aim to move on and I'm sure the perfect lady is out there for you somewhere. Good luck.0
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