Long story short I starting sleeping with this guy I met online last year for 4 months... then we lost contact and I found out that I was pregnant... so I had the baby 6 weeks ago and decided to try in get in contact with him again on yahoo in I did ...so we talked and he said he was glad to hear from me... I told him that there was something that I had to tell him ...he came over in I told him we got a baby together he was a little shocked and said he gone be there for the baby ...then the next day he came over again and we had sex in hung out like we use to...after that he text me 3 days straight and now he only text me once or twice a day now what's up with that...
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Why did you give it to him so quickly?
He hasn't seen you in a year and you immediately continue where you left off as if he hasn't left?
That's not a great decision.
I'd be more concerned about the role he is going to play in his childs life than laying up with him in my bed.
You cannot undo what's already done.
But from this point you can start making better decisions.
Do not sleep with him again.
Talk about how he is going to provide for the child you two have together, and how often he will be around to spend time with him/her.
Ease yourself into a relationship with him.
If you two end up being together, great!
If not, just make sure he is being a great father.1