I have been in the process of getting to know this guy off and on for 4 months. He is a crossfit junkie and is getting ready for a competition August 3rd. I have been focused on school and will be done August 7th. Our communication is great considering that we don't see each other often. Well he initiated a get together a couple days ago but I was busy.I asked him about his competition and he didn't answer my text. I text him to see what he was up to today because it is the 4th and hoping we can see fireworks together. I was at a cookout and he told me he was going to a pool party during the day. I even asked what was wrong with him and if it was me because he was so quiet past couple days. He told me that "we" are OK and that he has been feeling lazy and staying focused lately. I feel like that is an excuse and there is another reason why he went from really wanting to see me to not having time. I know that he practice Crossfit every day for many hours..he is determined. My response was "Well I respect that but this is the 4th and I just wanted to hang out have fun, get to know you more, be a friend..that is all. Have a good 4th" ...So he can hang out with his friends and go to a pool party and all of a sudden we can't hang out. I wanted to be professional when I sent the text but I also wanted him to feel for me. How would you feel knowing that this person wanted to see you on an off day and they text you that? Would that make you think about that person for awhile?
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If he really liked you, he would make time or at least plan a time and place to be with you. Sounds like he does not like you the way you might think. Try not talking to him, see if he contacts you. If he does, tell him that you are moving on or something like that, and hopefully he will open up about his feelings.
In my opinion, crossfit has no function in life. People are better off doing strongman training where irregular form and uncoordinated exercises can be helpful in crisis situations. Like when a tree falls down in your car, or when your trying to move a china dresser down the basement; you will have strength to do it.0
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