He broke up with me about 3 months ago but I never really understood why. I tried to just forget about it and move on but lately it's really been bothering me and I don't think I can move on until I really know what happened with us. I would ask him in person if I had the chance but I don't know another time I'd get to see him so would it be bad to text him? I just want to be able to get closure
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He broke up with you 3 months ago, and hasn't talked to you since. That's your closure.
If you had contacted him 3 days later, that would have been fine, but 3 months later? That's far too late. You aren't likely to get what you seek by contacting him, but you WILL succeed in further stirring up your feelings for him, and it will delay the time when you'll finally get over him.
A LOT of people have a hard time understanding that it ultimately doesn't matter how much they want someone else, if that person doesn't want them back. You can't make someone like you, or change how they feel about you, all you can do is accept it. I realize you are looking for a specific reason from him, but again, you waited way too long to seek it, so now, you just need to quit looking backwards, and start looking forwards.2