we all have different texting paces depending on our life and schedule. but would you change your texting pace because of our partners pace.
i mean I am completely free most of the time unless I am out and that allows me to reply fast but the girl replies really slow may be take 2 days or more sometimes should I change it to her pace and wait 2 days before replying?
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It really depends on how far along you are in your "relationship". I don't mean relationship as romantic, I mean, level of knowing each other. Back in the day, before texting, you might only talk to the person a few times between dates - ON the phone. Now, with this instant communication, some people expect instant responses. Not everyone agrees or does that. But, this brings into the question, are the long spaces between messages because that is just the persons personality or that they really aren't that interested in you and are fitting you into THEIR schedule or responding whenever they want.
For me, 2 days would be unacceptable for any relationship - friend, girlfriend, family, coworker etc. Within the day is my standard. I don't require instant - unless we've been chatting and responding nearly instantly.1