Every time I start to talk to a guy I feel like he's always the one who has the upper hand. For example a guy will text me and ill text him back but when I text first he won't answer. This happens over and over to me I just don't get why I can't ever have the upper hand. Why should he only talk to me when he feels like it?
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I don't understand this either, unless we are both just cursed with meeting guys who are just not into us at all :(
I've only had one boyfriend who would initiate anything. But me and him didn't work out, he was incredibly controlling and always criticized me. So he ended it. All the others just act indifferent towards me and it's clear they have the upper hand. Then eventually they lose interest and tell me I'm more like a friend.
Yes! It's this is a girl who get's friend-zoned! And no, I'm not withholding sex.
The guy I have been seeing for the past few months started off wonderfully. He would always be eager to talk to me, we would talk for hours online, have constant texts, and then when we met each other he couldn't spend enough time with me.
But now that he knows he has me, that's all changed. We went from talking for 5 hours a day online, and texting constantly, to never talking online. We see each other on weekends, but I am always the one initiating it :(
Then when I see him, he goes golfing, then comes home and wants to nap. I would love to spend some time with him doing something. I'm not opposed to him having a hobby, in fact I support it fully. I ask to go golfing with him all the time, but he says I need to go to the driving range first and practice hitting the balls. Which I have agreed and even asked to do several times, yet he never makes any solid plans to do so!