Why is it when a women or girl says, she hates a guy whose cocky and arrogant their usually the ones that get dates? But the guys who are shy and nice etc get pushed to the side? I'm asking to be serious. If your gonna sit there and call me rude or misogynists I'll block you.
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I don't, because that attitude just grates on me. I always try to be polite, but it's hard not to roll your eyes every five seconds. Some girls don't mind it though, maybe because they're genuinely not bothered by it, or the guy has other qualities that make up for it in her mind. Also, I'm thinking cocky/arrogant guys approach girls a lot, so the likelihood that they find a girl to date is higher than the shy, nice guy who doesn't. Maybe he runs into me, and I'm not interested, but he brushes it off and asks another girl who says yes.
I date confident guys though, and shy or reserved, (actually) nice guys are pretty cool too if they'll talk to you. Mostly it's me initiating things with the latter kind of guy, if I want to, and that's okay. However, the reality is that not a lot of girls do that.3
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