Hi, me and my ex boyfriend was together for one year and 2 months.
I broke up with him because he was abusive.
I couldn't do with all the mind games he played.
He text me nasty things because I ended it with him.
He made up I messaged his sister on Facebook and then he texted me again the week after. After a huge argument he created through text, I ended up telling him to never speak to me again.
We was ignoring each other at first. He said 'Hi' to me outside the pub, but I just ignored him. We haven't spoke in one month. But I went out the other night and he walks over to me by himself, stares at me for a few minutes and smiles then walked away. I then walked past him and he turned around very fast and stared at me as I walked for a few minutes. I wasn't looking at him either then.
Then to make it worse I saw him talking to another girl. He hasn't moved on with anyone else or got a new girlfriend, but it hurt so much to see that. He didn't look happy with her and they wasn't sitting close. He was talking to her as soon as I walked back over. Why does he still continue to stare at me? Does he miss me or just not miss me at all? He was avoiding the night club for a few weeks, but now he has started to come back in it. I find it so difficult to get over someone who stares at me ;( Is there a small chance maybe he misses me or is this all in my head? I miss him so much. :(
Advice please.We're both 20 years old btw.
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the fact that he stares at you is really beyond teh point of what's going on. you miss him so any look, action or whatever causes you to replay things in your head. you broke up with this guy because he was abusive. I'd say let that go and move on. you love him so it's tough to see him in person, catch him looking at you, or talking to another girl BUT you are too young to feel like this guy is THE guy for you. You still have time to discover stuff and if in a few years those feelings for him are still so strong and you still haven't met someone (and I'm sure you will meet someone) maybe then you re-open that can of worms
Does he miss you? I'm sure he does, most people miss their ex, or at least the good times and memories they had with them, and seeing that person is seeing the physical embodiment of the emotional connections you had
but regardless if you miss him the or he misses you the fact his after several chances the relationship still didn't work so it probably means you should move forward for the time being0