Ok so she is quite pretty about a 7 but when she does her hair properly she is a 8.5/9. she only dates guys that have become her good friends and she is confident around her mates but seems insecure and shy when she is on her own. she also is very nervous around me and only me. It took me a good couple of months to get a hangout/ date with her. But then I messed up by ignoring her. So how on earth do you get this type of girl? how long did it take to break you down? she is very indecisive as well.
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she's nervous because she liked you and you two were all nicey nicey before you stopped talking to her (in her mind that was rejection).
go be the stoic outgoing one with her. reinitiate a random trivial conversation, be kinda happy/laughy and acknowledge and apologize for possibly ignoring her. I also advise you to just break the ice completely, tell her that you couldn't stop thinking about her in the end (no, it's not awkward unless you think you're being awkward).
and remember that if you ignore her again you might trigger her shyness, so smile and wave when you see her, etc.
when she's talking to you, try to be responsive to let her know that you enjoy the conversation as much as she does (ahhh it's just insecurity). the insecurity will start to go away when she feels that you accept her more and more, even the things about her life that she might not tell other people.
in short: give her acceptance and encourage her to talk openly with you. the fact that she only dates close friends means that she has to have a high degree of trust and security before doing anything.
ps: wait what's with the 10-scale thing what? is that just another way of saying you might probably like her?0