I'm in my mid twenties never kissed a guy, in a relationship or really dated. The only handful of dates I've been on have all been online and once the guy has meet me they were just not interested and even acted like jerks to me/ or showed me their bad qualities to make me not interested. They saw my pics before hand, and talked to me so I don't know why I keep getting rejected.
I just graduated and now I'm looking for work. Not sure if I'll ever meet a guy in real life I mean I made it through college without ever even being asked out, ever.
I put myself out there in college, got involved in a bunch of things: frosh week, students groups etc. nothing no attention from guys or any dates or what have you. Which is kind of the reason I joined in the first place, just ended up with drama in those groups. Not even that many lasting friends.
Now I'm putting all my focus into only meeting guys online, because I feel that's the only way I can get a guy to even notice/like and a date. Is that good thing or bad thing and the sites I've used are free. I even want to delete them because I'm so overwhelmed with them, you talk to so many guys, then waste your time, half of them are not looking for anything serious. I say the same sometimes because I just want to kiss/makeout with a guy that I find attractive not marry the guy. Sigh I don't know what to do.
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Your method is not your problem. Your method does not really matter at all. What does matter is the content you put out for the content you drag in. This is true in real life as well; you actually want to turn as many people off as you possibly can so that you only get the ones you want.
Think of it as "fishing". You have universal bait and bait that will only attract certain types of fish ... You want the specialized bait that will repel puzzehmunst'rs and attract the big keepers.0