My girlfriend is in the habit of not texting me first, anymore. Before we started dating, and a few months into our relationship she would always text me first, sometimes she would ask random questions/send random comments just to get a conversation started. For the past 2 months I have had to text her first, if not we would go the entire day, and probably the next without hearing from each other. She is also the type of person who likes to "test" people so I am not sure if that is what she is doing. We have been together for 9 months now. I know she is not extremely busy or anything of the sort.
Would this bother anyone else?
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Yup... I'd hate that. I think things should come from both sides in a relationship, even with texting. It's nice to feel wanted every now and then and I understand if it's bothering you. I'd have a chat with her and ask her why she stopped making a effort to talk. If she's a person who likes tests and mind games then you need to tell her that you're her boyfriend and being tested constantly is a bit disrespectful. Cause it really, really is! Mind games generally are completely stupid anyway, and immature. Just tell her the truth in a friendly, non threatening way.0