This past week my boyfriend has really made me upset and he hurt my feelings deeply. I feel so angry and mad at him but most of all my feelings are hurt. He text me today that he would talk to me later tonight. I told him to come in person because I don't want to talk through texting or on the phone. I'm just so upset and mad at him that all I've been thinking about today is hitting him and cursing him out. I've never hit him before no matter how much we've argued but this time I'm really upset and hurt by his actions. I want to slap him extremely hard across the face so he can see how mad he has made me. I know its not OK to be violent but I feel like when a man does a woman who truly loves him wrong, its OK to put him in his place and show him how hurt he's made you. I just feel like he deserves this for hurting me and my feelings. Would I wrong if I slapped him across the face and cursed him out?
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Usually slapping someone across the face isn't like a planned thing, like someone says something vile and crude or touches you inappropriately and you slap him. But I did hear some hot sauce make you slap your grandma. Anyway, I don't think you should talk to him face to face if you are thinking of hitting him. You shouldn't lower yourself to his level, and if you really want to hurt him DON'T CARE, don't seem phased, stop talking to him completely delete him from your life. Nothing hurts a person worse than feeling like they don't exist or matter. When you are angry and hit people and go off it just shows how much you care which is why a lot of kids and people in general seek negative attention because it IS attention. Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing how upset he has made you. Believe me it works just try it. Firs it wil alarm him and scare him and then he will start saying mean things to get your attention horrible things, don't give in then he will apologize on his own an BEG you to forgive him. Either way, don't lower yourself, you are too classy to let some low life change who YOU are. Stay strong girl :)2