-Never texts first
-Sometimes gives closed responses like "hahahaha" or ":D" (A closed response is a response that CAN'T provoke more conversation)
-Hasn't really asked questions back
When I pick up the conversation after a closed response, I sometimes get a lengthy or a genuine answer
Me: So about (blablabla)
Her: (Genuine response)
All in all, can't tell if she's being friendly in replying, or actually interested in talking. both 20 in college btw
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Does she even like texting? Some people are like that and won't initiate, but when you ask something they'll give you long responses and stuff. I'd just leave it be for a while, don't text her, and see if that prompts her to start things.
However, her closed responses sound like something a person would say if they don't know how to respond/there isn't much they can respond with. I think if she wasn't interested she'd be much shorter with you or not respond at all, instead of give any long and genuine answers.
I'm assuming you want to date her, so if you like her well enough - just ask her out and talk face to face. It gives you a better idea if she's actually interested, or you're not getting anywhere with her and it's a waste of time.