both 20 in college btw
Was texting this girl I'm friends and I sorta like. I remember she talked about having a gym membership at the same gym I go to (planet fitness). Basically I threw out the offer that if she needs a partner I can go with her, she was a bit embarassed and self-conscious I could tell as she said she either likes to go alone or with her sister. eventually she said "haha maybe one day ill think of going with someone else"
anyway at the end of the convo I said "we can also do something else whenever, just sayin" and no response. I was implying a hang out but maybe she didn't understand it?
next day I sent a text of a funny picture she'd like and no response. I know she gets busy sometimes and reads it and forgets to reply, but it makes me think... who would forget to reply to a text they AT LEAST enjoy talking too? or maybe I'm being too negative?
worst part is this girl never texts first(I even asked guys she was definitely into, they said the same thing too) so I'm not sure what to do. text again? when? what do I do really?
- OverthinkingVote A
- Bad signVote B
- Just text her again!Vote C
- Other (post what)Vote D
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I thought something seemed familiar about this question, I answered your other one. Just give her a call, it lets her know you want to talk and you don't leave your thoughts alone on a forgotten text if she isn't available. I don't see any signs of her being very interested in you right now from what I see but you don't hurt yourself by making the call or sending a text, you hurt yourself by never trying. A bruised ego won't kill you (nor do I think it should even be bruised by these kind of things) but you might want to kill yourself if you found out down the road that you had a chance but she was waiting on you to call, and you never did.0
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