So, there's this girl I've been talking to for the past 3 weeks. We've been texting a lot, she likes to ask dirty questions, like what I think about her, and if I find her hot, and stuff like that. The thing is: she has a boyfriend, very jealous, and she told me to stop texting her because her boyfriend (younger than her) is angry. So we stop texting for the past 3 days. And I start thinking if I annoyed her somehow or she's angry with me... Here's the best part: in 2 months, she will come to the same college I am, and her boyfriend is going to stay at home. I'm thinking that the probability of them breaking up is like 70-80%, right? The biggest fear I have is that I've never had a girlfriend (kiss, hold hands, stuff like that), and I told her that (stupid me)! I am glad that I'm 6'4, because I know she likes tall guys, but I'm not very handsome, I mean, I'm in the ugly-average type, and she noticed that I'm very shy, just from texting! The thing is, she had like 10 boyfriends, and I'm really really really afraid that she's going to say that I need experience to be with her. When I'm going to around her, how should I act around her? Should I flirt, or should I be her friend, helping with her homework and projects and stuff, and maybe, hope, someday, she will see that I'm a good guy and she wants to give it a shot? Thanks
PS: She so very f***ing beautiful.
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You want my honest opinion?
Shes cheating on her boyfriend by talking to you sexually and in the future if you ever get with her she will cheat on you as well. Even if she's had 10 boyfriends it doesn't make her "experienced". No one is experienced EVER! I'm surprised you haven't taken a dump in your pants when you're next to her because the way you make it sound is, like she's a goddess.. I mean come on dude, is she the only girl you see? plenty of fish in the sea.. she sounds like bad news. But HEY if you want to date her and be with her by all means ill give you advice.
How to act around her - act like yourself, if you pretend to be someone you're not you will just confuse her and yourself even more. If you're going to be her friend, she will friend zone you till the end of day, tell her how you feel to the point that SHE gets it. Tell her you don't care she has a boyfriend or not, and say how youve thought about her and want her in every aspect. As for kissing, no one is a pro in the beginning, I'm sure if you tell her she will teach you. Its not rocket science, a monkey can kiss blind folded.
But yeah, that's what I can tell you.2