I had a summer class with this guy in college. We usually talked to each other in class and then one day he asked for my phone number and we texted a few times, typically homework related. One time I was at a party and he happened to be there as well. So we hung out and he seemed to enjoy my company. We talked a little bit about our dating life and he said that he has only had one serious relationship but he has dated a few girls and slept with them. He said that's how he came to know them better. I sort of got a vibe that he's a player but I'm not sure because I've never really dated anyone before. Then, he asked me if I'd come to his room after the party is over and I refused.
A week later, he texted me casually and then he asked if I'd like to hang out sometimes. I don't think I'm attracted to him per se. I think I'm more interested in the idea of having a boyfriend and going on a date since I've never dated before. I don't really know much about this guy other than he's funny and a bit egoistic. Do you think I should go for it or not?
Thank you so much for the advice!
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Please don't make any decisions with this guy because you're:
"more interested in the idea of having a boyfriend and going on a date since I've never date before"
been there. done that. I could be wrong but he seem like a player and he seem like he wanted to have sex with you (well that's what all guys want which is natural but of course its not that simple) I don't want to advise you to "cut this guy off". I say get to know him more first. don't sleep with him because he keeps asking or because you think if you sleep with him you will finally have a boyfriend. if things don't work out with you too, you can walk away with little to no emotions but if you get in too deep, you would have to walk away with a lot of heartbreak and pain. so I'll leave with this.take your time and get to KNOW this guy first. please be wise.1
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