I just met this guytwo weeks ago. We were intoduced by a common friend. It was just a Hi and Hello meeting. Since then, we started texting, he called me on the phone once. But we text the whole day. Then, a few days ago, he asked me if I want to go out with him for dinner this weekend. He suggested a nice restaurant. Then I said yes. And now, it's the weekend, and he now suggestedto go with his relatives for some barbecue. Is there something I should be worried about? I'm just wondering because it was supposed to be a date for just the two of us.
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you should tell him that you thought it was a romantic dinner out. The fact that he changed his mind over the location, plus his family is involved suggests he is easily influenced about his family, I mean even if the barbecue plan showed up after he had told you about dinner, it means either he didn't have the guts to tell family he had other plans OR it could be a money issue, maybe he didn't get salary and being afraid of not getting you upset he suggested you that you should go out to the barbecue. Family date is not something desirable on a first date. Anyway, take the proposition and see how he behaves with you around family, you also see his relatives, it might give you a glimpse over the future. You can decide if you should dump him after or not.0