My girlfriend and I are both about 30 years old. We have been dating for 7 months and have a strong connection. We talked about getting married and both want to. I may go away for a year or so to finish school. If I go she wants to wait to get married until we reunite. Why do you think she wants to wait if I leave? Wouldn't getting married make her feel more secure? And in general how long should people date before they get married?
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I don't think there is a set time to wait as such but it is really early days for you guys at the moment. One thing I will say is marriage doesn't give you security within a relationship. I really do think you guys would be wise to wait. It can take years to really get to know a person!0