would a girl visit a dating site less if she found a guy she liked on the dating site?
how about if she was considering 2 guys?
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It's one of two things -
a) She's trying to check on the guy she's seeing/liking.
My personal experience to explain why I think that - I met a guy on a dating site. We started dating, things are going well. Then, my friend who uses the site as well says she's seeing my boyfriend on the site all the time, even after we made it official. One even asked her out, not knowing she was my friend. This happens, A LOT. It's happened to me more than once.
b) She's trying to find someone she thinks is better, like the guys I mentioned in point a.
Most people these days have a "grass is greener" mentality... ALWAYS on the lookout for the better deal, the better guy/girl. They constantly enter relationships with one foot already out the door, never giving up a search. Sad, but true. This mentality is easier to covet and embrace with internet dating sites. They're able to continue looking for their "better option" with little to no effort, there's less chance of being caught at it, etc.0