I have been out on TWO DATES with a guy, okay, TWO DATES! He is already talking about our future together and how much he truly "insanely" likes me... tells me I'm a rare gem and that he wants us to move into a relationship etc. Now, he's a really nice guy, he compliments me all the time and opens doors for me, very sweet, but really I mean after two dates he's ready to take it to the next level?
For instance : After our first date I was talking about how nice it will be to graduate from college, move out of this city and up to one I've wanted to live in for forever, and get a good job in healthcare in a couple years, and his first question was "well will you wait for me to be promoted enough at my job to move with you? It may take about 4 - 5 years but it WILL happen I know it!" FIRST DATE!
He gets jealous so quickly that all I have to do is just MENTION a man's name and it's "who is that? Well how do you know him? Why does he have your number?" etc... meanwhile all of these guys are people I've known for a long time from school. Several of which are currently overseas and a few are gay so what's the BFD? They're my friends end of story!
I asked him yesterday if he'd be okay with us just being friends IF a relationship didn't work out between us, and he freaked out... called over and over telling me how he felt sick to his stomach over that question and that he was worried about losing me ... said he only got a couple hours of sleep because I'm "just out of his reach and he wants me so badly" etc... I just don't know what on earth to do... does anyone out there know what's going on?
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He's doing the standard thing that many guys do in their first relationship.
If you're like 95% of the girls out there, you'll dump him for being a super-clingy weirdo, and he'll learn his lesson the hard way.
If you're in the other 5% you'll explain why he's acting weird, that his feelings are not real, and then if he learns his lesson, have a normal time dating him. Or if he doesn't learn his lesson, dump him.4