i am dating a girl who travels oftens and maybe see her once a week at this point.
the last 2 weeks when she has come to town she has had plans
with friends although she squeezed me in during that time.
when she is away she doesn't initiate the calling or text but when I do she replies fast and we talk.
when she last came to town she contact me to go out.
is it possible she is so busy she can't talk at all?
i notice she also appears on the dating site we met..once in a while..
i kind of feel that her not contacting me while she's away is bad..just to say a 'hi' is all
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When I first dating my boyfriend, I never initiated any call/text.
He was always the one who initiates. Still most time he initiates first.
Not that I wasn't interested enough, I even loved to hear from him, but I just didn't want to bother him and I was also doing my things, and I'm not really a big phone person talking about my life on the phone..
She still makes time to see you and replies you fast. Those are good signs.
If she wasn't, she wouldn't squeeze her time and always reply you.
If you so worried, stop call for one or two days
Or you can just ask her. She wouldn't think you are being clingy if she likes you.