So I'm quite fortunate to have money and a high paying job, so my life is pretty stable now.
I hear how about how important money is to the dating scene. I can treat a girl like a queen, but I don't want to be take advantaged of.
So would anyone consider it dishonest if I hid my apparent wealth for af lleast the first few dates with a girl?
If asked my job, I could claim that I am just "financially stable IT worker." I would keep this up for a while.So instead of 5 star restaurants, I would opt for a diner.
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You do realize there's no need to broadcast even the "financially stable" part, right? That would seem to go against your desire to want to hide your wealth.
If someone asks you what you do, tell them. It could be a job position, or the name of a company if it's well known (which is then usually followed by your job title anyway). There's no need at all to mention how much you get paid.
Also, why not take her to a nice, "normal" restaurant instead of going out of your way to downgrade so as to appear like a normal guy? A normal guy wouldn't cheap out on a date with a girl.
It either seems like you're thinking about this and trying to force your own behavior too much, or you subtly want to display your wealth by dropping little hints. But I won't make assumptions about that. Just take a girl out to a nice, normal restaurant and keep talk about your money out of things.0