I know this is a weird question with perhaps no one answer but as a naive virgin in his twenties who got his first kiss just a few months ago, I have no reference point in these situations and have no idea what to expect.
Anyway I have finally started to pull myself together and am dating this girl. She's had a few boyfriends before so I don't think she's too prude. We've been on two dates (which went well) with a third coming up soon and we're messaging each other every day.
However the most we've done so far is a hug and a peck on the cheek (though she did hint at possibly more the next time) and I'm wondering if this is the usual speed of progression with a girl, is it normally slower or faster?
As a girl, when would you expect the first proper kiss to take place into a dating relationship? And when would you be considering spending the night together? Obviously this is highly individual but I'm wondering if there are some general averages out there.
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I know you want the "average", but you really do have to judge the girl on this one.
I'd say you're moving at a normal speed. It all depends on the connection; if it's like a really sweet and friendly connection, it might take up to 10 or more dates for her to consider that (as for some girls it's a really big step). If your connection is all about lust and there's less talking and more touching kind of stuff, I'd expect something soon.
I think you're doing well how you are, based on what you said. Let her kind of take the lead on when she wants to move more.1