My ex boyfriend broke up, (after a year and half of together,) almost 2 months ago. About a month after the break up and no contact since, I texted him. Saying I found some tickets from when he took me (to a really nice town) and it reminded me of him. And I hope he was doing good. He texted me back right away and said he was doing OK and he hopes I'm good as well. And he hopes I went back to school. (I've been in my country for the past 5 month, came to get an f-1 student visa to study in the US). I didn't respond to that.
Next day he texted me asking me if I was in NYC and how he was still surprised I texted him. And I said not yet, I'll be back in a few weeks . After that we've talked about almost everyday. Last week we didn't talk for 2 days and he texted me saying " You forgot about me" . We talked the whole day and next day too.
He says he's not ready for another relationship, but other times he says he wishes he had someone. (I doubt he has any issues finding someone since he's 6'3 gorgeous Sicilian man).
He asks me if I have someone.
He ask me a lot when am I getting back to NYC
NOW I'M CONFUSED AND GETTING MIXED SIGNALS
Last night he said he has changed a lot. Emotionally and mentally. That it was time to be a man build something. I saw that text and didn't reply too soon. And before I could reply, he send me another text saying. "We can be really good friends" " Is that ok" "We're talking and I don't want to misunderstand things" ... I said we're just talking and I'm not misunderstanding things, and there was no need of him to say that. He said "its OK I'm sorry" .. like 15 minutes later I texted him gn. and he said gn talk tomorrow.
Please guys help! What do you guys think?
P.S I'm so so sorry for the long paragraph. I'm just clueless !
Next day he texted me asking me if I was in NYC and how he was still surprised I texted him. And I said not yet, I'll be back in a few weeks . After that we've talked about almost everyday. Last week we didn't talk for 2 days and he texted me saying " You forgot about me" . We talked the whole day and next day too.
He says he's not ready for another relationship, but other times he says he wishes he had someone. (I doubt he has any issues finding someone since he's 6'3 gorgeous Sicilian man).
He asks me if I have someone.
He ask me a lot when am I getting back to NYC
NOW I'M CONFUSED AND GETTING MIXED SIGNALS
Last night he said he has changed a lot. Emotionally and mentally. That it was time to be a man build something. I saw that text and didn't reply too soon. And before I could reply, he send me another text saying. "We can be really good friends" " Is that ok" "We're talking and I don't want to misunderstand things" ... I said we're just talking and I'm not misunderstanding things, and there was no need of him to say that. He said "its OK I'm sorry" .. like 15 minutes later I texted him gn. and he said gn talk tomorrow.
Please guys help! What do you guys think?
P.S I'm so so sorry for the long paragraph. I'm just clueless !
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