how long did you date for?
i can understand kissing on the first 3 dates..but have you waited 8 or 9 dates?
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A year! This was/is my first boyfriend. Actually I put off going on "official" dates with him for a year, by saying (to convince myself) that we were just friends. After a year, he made it clear that he was very frustrated that I wouldn't let him pay for anything, brushed off his attempts to talk about anything regarding a relationship, and didn't seem to care for him that much...but he didn't direct his anger at me.
Having been rejected before myself, I empathized with him very strongly at this. He hid his emotions very well, so the degree of frustration he felt was really a surprise to me, and it changed my mind about him immediately. So then - I realized that he would be a really good boyfriend to me and he was really nice and pretty attractive...so I asked him to be my boyfriend; we were both each others' first kiss, and we've been together since.
Therefore, I think if it's a girl's first kiss...she's more likely to want to wait as long as socially possible. After her first kiss, if she likes a guy, I think she'd be likely to kiss him on the first date. The more she likes him (the longer she's known him), the more likely she is to want to kiss him on the first date.