What type of person do you think they are? So far I say its because they are shy,have problems like socially(low self esteem/insecure,awkward,adhd,asburger,etc). Am I wrong?
For me its shy and sometimes awkward, but I use to have low self esteem but I was young who didnt? Now I'm thinking of not being online as much so I can get a life so I tried and I can
live without online friends but sometimes I get bored & cave in.
I just don't know how to break it to some people because they make it seem like "oh your leaving me"
I think I'm getting too sucked in because I don't believe in online dating yet I flirt or kinda lead guys on if they act interested. I don't wana seem mean (I do the same in rl but don't take it to far)
I kinda don't feel the online world is all real since I know people can easily lie.
I know I have to leave pal or maybe kik too because I'm starting to give guys pics of me. I don't wana be like those girls but I'm falling into the pit of deceit! no sexting but still showing what I look like. I always thought it was weird since I'm paranoid I may be stalked or people use it. And Catfish reassures me of that!
Lord give me the strength! lol any advice or anyone know what I'm talking about?
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I don't really think either. Pretty much every guy I know does the same as me. We go out once a day for the gym or work or both, go home and relax playing video games. We go out every now and again in groups, usually on hot days and stuff. I don't go online a lot cause I have problems, or because I'm shy, I'd like to think I am neither really.
If you're dating or flirting online? I dunno, I don't really see it as a problem. I have a female friend irl who could date a bunch of decent guys, but she isn't interested in anyone here, so she has a boyfriend online (they meet occasionally). I think it's only a problem if you let your online life affect your real life. As in, you turn down an invite to a party or outing so you can talk to some guy on kik.4